A Change of Mind

We have always heard of being positive in all of our dealings. This is true, as our inner world is a reflection of our outer world. This may have been the best advice given from a place that may not be favorable for us at times. After all, we are the light trying to navigate this darkness.

The rough and heavy terrain can cause one to look at life in a negative viewpoint especially when we can keep being bombarded with life, like having to grow up faster than our peer groups because of family circumstances and not getting the childhood that we needed. Or having financial difficulties from setback after setback, or whatever the many undesirable experiences may be, we may have had to deal with it. And these instances can cause anyone to look at life in a negative aspect. I know I did. But then there was a wake up call and I answered.

I started to be more optimistic on my life even through the challenges. It took me awhile to finally get a hold of keeping the mindset of the desire to be happy. That’s when I would attract good people around me and making positive life changing decisions to keep me level headed. I felt like I could start to see beyond the wall. My life was balancing in a way that I wanted. That’s when I started to see what positive and negative thoughts would deliver to me by the grand design. I was already familiar of what heaviness felt like and the gifts it brought but to know what positivity brings me, I’d rather be in that space as much as I can.

Now, I understand that life can also have her ups and downs as nothing on earth is in a linear fashion. Frequency always works in waves. And I also know that magnetic forces work on positive and negative energy as well. We do need both and I honor them in because we still need that in order to achieve the balance in our lives. It’s a way of having discernment and understanding of the two.

We can be emotional about things that can upset us and it may seem negative but we need to move through that energy to heal ourselves. We can cope with our emotions in different ways we just can’t stay within them. That is how we have to navigate this life of ours. The sun will come out eventually but we also need the rain. So these two conditions we need to survive and they all go hand in hand.

With saying all of this, it’s okay to be negative sometimes but the way out is to be pulled out of it by positivity. This is when life will start to reward us. Just like we want to stay in on the rainy days but the sun likes to make us come out and soak us in it with his rays. Let’s try and have a conscious state of mind, because we all deserve happiness in our humanness in order to learn from each other, as we use it, and never abuse it, but to honor ourselves for trying to be the light that we want to live in.